What You'll Actually Pay Before Moving Into Your First Apartment
The money you need before you move in
Most landlords will ask for three payments upfront: the first month's rent, the last month's rent, and a security deposit. The first month and last month are usually equal to one month's rent each. The security deposit is typically one month's rent as well, though some landlords charge half a month or up to two months depending on the state and the rental market in your area. This means you could need two to four months' worth of rent before you get your keys.
Beyond what the landlord requires, you'll have moving costs, utility setup fees, and furnishings if you're starting from scratch. These expenses don't go to the landlord—they're what you spend to actually get your belongings there and make the space livable. The total upfront cost is usually higher than the rent itself, especially if you're moving a distance or starting with almost nothing.
Key Takeaways
- Landlords typically collect first month's rent, last month's rent, and a security deposit before you move in, which adds up to two to four months of rent depending on local rules.
- Moving costs vary widely based on distance and whether you hire movers or do it yourself, ranging from under $100 for a local move to several thousand for long-distance.
- Utility companies may charge connection fees or deposits, and you should contact them at least two weeks before your move-in date to avoid gaps in service.
- Basic furnishings, kitchen supplies, and cleaning materials can cost $500 to $2,000 for a completely empty apartment, though you can start smaller and add over time.
- Some costs are one-time (moving, deposits) while others recur monthly (utilities, internet), so budget separately for each type.
What landlords require before you get the keys
The security deposit is the money the landlord holds to cover damage beyond normal wear and tear. It's not rent—it's collateral. When you move out, the landlord inspects the apartment and returns what's left after deducting for repairs or cleaning. The amount varies by state and lease, but one month's rent is the most common. Some states cap it; others don't. Check your state's rental laws or ask the landlord what they charge.
First month's rent and last month's rent are straightforward: you pay them both before you move in. The "last month" payment sits in the landlord's account and covers your final month of tenancy, whenever that is. This protects the landlord if you leave without paying. Some states limit how landlords can hold this money or require them to pay interest on it, so ask what the rules are where you're renting.
A few landlords also charge an application fee (usually $25 to $75) to run a background and credit check, and some charge a pet deposit if you have animals. These are separate from the security deposit and usually non-refundable. Read your lease carefully to see what's listed.
Moving expenses: what changes based on distance and method
A local move—within the same city or nearby—is cheapest if you do it yourself. Renting a truck from a company like U-Haul or Penske costs $20 to $100 depending on truck size and distance. If you ask friends to help, you might buy them pizza and gas money. If you hire movers, expect $1,000 to $3,000 for a local move depending on how much stuff you have and how far they're carrying it.
A long-distance move (more than 100 miles) is much more expensive. Full-service movers typically charge $3,000 to $10,000 or more. A cheaper option is a portable moving container—companies like PODS or U-Pack deliver a container to your old place, you load it, they transport it, and you unload at your new place. This usually costs $2,000 to $5,000 depending on distance. If you're moving across the country with very little, shipping boxes through the postal service or UPS might be your cheapest route, though it's slower.
Don't forget small costs: boxes (free from grocery stores or liquor stores, or $1 to $3 each new), packing tape, bubble wrap, and labels. If you're moving in summer or on a weekend, movers charge more. If you can move on a weekday or in the off-season, you'll pay less.
Utility setup fees and deposits
Electricity, gas, water, and internet all have setup processes. Most utility companies charge a connection fee ($15 to $50) to turn on service at your address. Some also charge a deposit if you don't have an established payment history with them—this is collateral, like a security deposit, and you get it back after you've paid on time for a period (usually 12 months). Deposits vary but can be $100 to $300 per utility.
Contact utilities at least two weeks before your move-in date. If you don't, service might not be ready when you arrive, and you could face a rush fee. Ask each company what they charge for connection and whether they'll require a deposit. If you've had utilities in your name before and paid on time, mention that—it may waive the deposit.
Internet is separate from utilities. Cable and fiber providers charge installation fees ($50 to $150) and may require a deposit. Cheaper options like satellite internet or a mobile hotspot have lower setup costs but may have data limits. Shop around: prices and fees vary widely by provider and location.
Furnishings and household supplies for an empty apartment
If you're moving into a completely empty apartment, you need a bed, somewhere to sit, a table, and kitchen basics before you can live there comfortably. A used bed frame and mattress from Facebook Marketplace or Craigslist might cost $100 to $300. A used couch is $50 to $200. A used kitchen table and chairs might be $50 to $150. Thrift stores like Goodwill and Salvation Army have dressers, shelves, and lamps for $10 to $50 each.
Kitchen supplies—pots, pans, plates, utensils, glasses, cutting board, knives—can be bought new at discount stores like Target or Walmart for $100 to $200, or gathered used for much less. Bedding (sheets, pillows, blankets) costs $50 to $150 new. Cleaning supplies, toilet paper, trash cans, and shower curtain might be another $30 to $50.
If you buy everything new and brand-new, you could spend $1,500 to $3,000. If you buy used and start minimal, you might spend $300 to $600 and add things over the next few months as you have money. Many people do a mix: new bed and mattress (because used ones can have issues), used furniture, and basic new kitchen items. There's no rule—spend what you can afford and build from there.
One-time costs versus monthly costs
Separate your upfront expenses into two buckets: money you pay once, and money you'll pay every month. One-time costs include the security deposit, first and last month's rent, moving expenses, utility connection fees, utility deposits, and furnishings. These are the big numbers that hit your bank account before you move in.
Monthly costs start the day you move in: rent, utilities (electricity, gas, water), internet, phone, renters insurance (usually $10 to $20 a month), and groceries. Some of these you'll estimate before moving; others you'll learn as you live there. Utilities vary by season and usage. Internet prices are fixed. Renters insurance is cheap and protects your belongings if there's a fire or theft.
When you're saving for the move, calculate how much you need upfront, then make sure you have at least one month of living expenses left over after you pay it all. You don't want to move in and have no money for groceries or an unexpected repair.
How to lower your upfront costs
Ask the landlord if they'll negotiate the security deposit or last month's rent. Some will lower it if you have good credit, a co-signer, or a job offer letter showing stable income. It doesn't hurt to ask, especially in a buyer's market where landlords are competing for tenants.
For moving, get quotes from at least three companies and compare. If you're flexible on your move date, moving mid-week or mid-month is cheaper than weekends or month-end. Sell or give away things you don't need before moving—less stuff means a smaller truck or lower mover costs.
For furnishings, start with the absolute minimum and buy used. Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, and Nextdoor often have free items people are giving away. Buy new only what you really need (bed, kitchen knives, shower curtain). Thrift stores and discount retailers have everything else for a fraction of new prices.
If you're moving for a job, ask your employer if they offer relocation assistance. Some companies reimburse moving costs or provide a one-time stipend. It's worth asking.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I negotiate the security deposit?
Some landlords will lower it if you have strong credit, a co-signer, or proof of income. It's worth asking, especially if you're renting in a competitive market. However, many landlords won't budge, and some states set limits on how high they can go but not how low. Ask before you sign the lease.
What if I can't afford all the upfront costs at once?
Talk to the landlord about a payment plan—some will let you pay the security deposit and last month's rent over two or three months instead of all upfront. You might also ask family or friends for a short-term loan, or look into credit unions that offer small personal loans with lower rates than credit cards. Some nonprofits also help with moving costs for people relocating for work.
Do I have to pay a utility deposit?
Not always. If you've had utilities in your name before and paid on time, most companies will waive the deposit. If you're new to having utilities in your name, they may require one. Ask each company what they charge and whether you can waive it with proof of income or a co-signer.
What's the difference between a security deposit and last month's rent?
A security deposit is held for damage and returned when you move out (minus deductions). Last month's rent is applied to your final month of tenancy and is not returned—it's just prepaid rent. Some states require landlords to keep them separate and pay interest on the security deposit.
Should I buy furniture new or used?
Used is cheaper and fine for most things. Buy new only for items where used matters: a mattress (for hygiene), kitchen knives (for safety), and anything you'll use daily and want to last. Everything else—couch, table, dresser, lamps—works just as well used and costs a fraction of the price.